Many of our members have tried everything (including online sites, friends and family connections). This has worked for some but not for everyone. There’s a certain pressure that comes when a family member or a friend proposes a match. At Beyond Chai we are a neutral party that is looking out for your best interest. We work collaboratively as a team to make sure that we are on the same page.
Matchmaking is more of an art than science. You cannot simply come up with a list of criteria and expect a match to workout. A lot of effort goes on behind the scenes to find a match. For example, our members often say that they would like someone who is a “Moderate Muslim” – but this term ‘moderate’ can mean different to different people. So we have to dig deeper to understand the character and compatibility matrix.