Online sites can be helpful but it can take an emotional toll on you. Having to weed through several profiles (including the fake ones) is challenging and time consuming. According to one survey over 70% of online profiles are fake. The number one complaint that we get from our members that have been on online sites is that they are not serious candidates for marriage or that there is no real conversations taking place to really get to know a person. In short-the process of getting to know someone online is very different and challenging.