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Finding a Spouse

What to look for, compatibility, red flags and istikhara – choosing with your heart and your head.

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Using The Prophetic Example To Find A Mate

Lessons from the Prophet's ﷺ life and the Qur'an to encourage American Muslims, including divorced, widowed and older singles, to pursue marriage…

from Sound Vision2 min read

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Muslims & Marriage: Are We Too Picky?

Ammarah Usmani asks whether Muslim families' checklists for a spouse have become too focused on wealth, looks and status, and urges putting…

from Sound Vision2 min read

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The Three Keys of Dating

Three foundations for anyone looking for a life partner: know your expectations, set boundaries that reflect them, and communicate both clearly.

from The Gottman Institute2 min read

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Do Opposites Attract or Similarities?

Why couples are usually more different than alike, and why accepting those differences matters more than trying to change them.

from The Gottman Institute2 min read

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The Stigmatisation of Disabled Muslims

Why disabled Muslims, especially sisters, face stigma in community and marriage, and how families, advocates and faith can help change those attitudes.

from The Muslim Vibe2 min read

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Tired Of Being Single?

Three common reasons the search for a spouse stalls, from rigid checklists to waiting passively, and how to shift your approach with…

from Mental Health 4 Muslims2 min read

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10 Ways To Avoid Marrying The Wrong Person

Two Muslim counsellors share practical guidance on what to look for, and what to watch out for, while getting to know someone…

from Mental Health 4 Muslims2 min read