By Relationship Rules
You might not believe right now, but one day, you’re going to look back and say that there was nothing you ever needed to be worried about. Sure, you might be feeling a little lonesome at the moment. You might be craving the kind of affection and love that you see in the relationships that are all around you. At this moment, you hate having to go home after a long day at work to an empty house where no one is waiting for you.
But someday, you are going to be coming home to someone who you actually consider to be your home in human form – and you won’t even think about the nights like that you have now. Someday, you won’t have to keep on tossing and turning in your bed daydreaming about the love that you think you deserve because you will have already found it – and it will be better than anything you could have possibly imagined. You will no longer have to keep on wallowing in the weight of your heavy sorrows because you will meet a person who is going to bring light and joy into your everyday life.
You are no longer going to have to keep on second-guessing yourself. You won’t have to keep on questioning your sense of self-worth. You are going to have someone who will love you and make you feel like you are the most amazing person in the world. You won’t have starless nights anymore. You won’t have cloudy days. You are going to have a life that will be full of color, brightness, and sunshine. And it’s all going to be because of this one person.
You won’t have to spend your Sunday mornings in bed alone anymore – just wishing that you can find the motivation to get up and do something for yourself. You are going to want to wake up with a huge smile every morning – just ready to face the day because you know you have a partner who is going to be there for you in every single thing that you do.
Whenever you are feeling a little overwhelmed by your emotions; whenever there are a million thoughts that are running through your head, you won’t have to keep them all to yourself anymore. You are going to have a special person who you won’t have to have a filter for anymore.
This is someone who is going to give you a space to freely express yourself however you see fit. This is a person who is never going to hold whatever you have to say against you. This is someone who isn’t going to judge or criticize you in ways that will make you feel terrible or small. You no longer have to feel unsafe in the expression of your inner self because this person is going to love you – the real you; and not just the filtered version of you. With this person, you are really going to understand what it means to be free and liberated from your own personal insecurities.
You are going to know what it means to have someone who sees you as perfect – even when you know that you are just overflowing with imperfections. With this person, you will have the confidence to feel like you can do absolutely no wrong. You won’t have to tread carefully. You can be as reckless as you want because you know that someone is going to be there to catch you when you fall. With this person, you won’t have to every worry about doing or saying anything that will drive them away from you – because they will always make it a point to get as close to you as possible. They will love you not just with an emotional intensity – but a physical one as well.
Perhaps you have been growing more and more discouraged because of a very unfortunate pattern of dating terrible partners. Perhaps you are growing more and more tired of being with someone who just can’t love you the way that you think you deserve to be loved – the way that you have always dreamed of being loved. And that’s fine. That’s normal.
You can be sad about that. But what you shouldn’t do is allow that to taint your faith and hope in the idea that true love is going to find you eventually – and when it does, it will be the most beautiful thing you will ever have the opportunity of experiencing.