Assalaamu Alaikum! My name is Salimah. Welcome to my profile ?  I'm a New Jersey native; grew up in South Jersey, now in Jersey City. I'm the 3rd of 8 from revert Muslim parents. I'm a middle-child with first-born tendencies. Meaning, I need attention but I'm also able (& likely) to do for myself. I've always been the "go-getter" type. Once I set my sights on something I can be quite relentless. Much to the chagrin of my parents lol. Most recently, I set my sights on relocating internationally, but Covid threw the biggest wrench in those plans, so they're on hold for now.

Work-wise: I'm kind of a jack-of-all-trades and a serial entrepreneur: I currently manage an online store for my sister, have my own Administrative Consulting business, and recently started a Gourmet Halal Food business as well. I did the 9-to-5 thing for much of my adult life and have determined that it's just not for me. I thrive on the flexibility of remote work and being my own boss. And then there's the added bonus of being able to work from anywhere, and not being tied to any particular location at any particular time.

Personality-wise: When people first meet me, they often use the word "feisty". Once they get to know me, they find out that I hate that word lol. I have a tendency to be hyper-logical, so saying what you mean and meaning what you say is paramount; particularly while just getting to know each other. I'm not a fan of hyperbolic flattery and such (to be clear, I'm all for flattery lol...just not the exaggerated kind). In an ironic contrast, I can be quite sarcastic at times (smh) ??‍♀️. I'm emotionally reserved, until I'm confident that I am safe with someone. Honest and clear communication is of the utmost importance to me. I am fiercely loyal to my loved-ones (e.g. their beef is also my beef...and they'll probably forgive before I do). I'm much better at giving help than I am at asking for it (I'm working on this). I try to be as honest with the people I love as possible. I am a believer in "tough-love" but I've learned to dial it back to "toughish-love" because people receive it better. My main Love Language is Quality Time. I've taken the quiz every year since 2016 and this has never changed. I'm an introvert in large groups and with people I don't know but once I'm comfortable, I can get pretty extroverted.

Likes & Interests: I LOVE music; particularly late 90s & early 2000s HipHop and R&B. Going to small concerts of lesser-known artists was 1 of my all time favorite (pre-rona) activities. Traveling is another favorite of mine. I like to take 3-4 trips each year...it could be international, or just to the next state over. I have severe wanderlust. I enjoy dressing well and expressing myself through my presentation. I love coffee! I wouldn't say it's an addiction because I can and have gone without it but I'd just rather not. I enjoy visiting art installations and interesting exhibits. I am very into emotional and mental growth. Whether it be through therapy, introspection, meditation, or supplication. I'm also quite passionate about the Black American Muslim experience.

I'm praying to find my "person" here. The person who gets me like no one else.  Who'll support me when I'm right and call me out when I'm wrong. Someone to share in celebrations and sadnesses. A man who's lead I can confidently follow. A partner in this life and in the next. insha'Allah ??