My one piece of advise if you feel hesitant about match-making services is to at least try Beyond Chai and talk with one of their consultants. I can understand the hesitation since other match-making avenues may not have been a good experience in the past, perhaps through other websites or through family and friends. I worked with Aasia; she is very thoughtful and made me feel at ease. I don’t know how she did it, but the first person she introduced me to was it for me! It feels like I’ve found my best friend and partner in life, and we are planning to get married next spring, iA. I am so thankful to have had this experience and recommend BC with full confidence.