She was talking to a guy for 8 months - she felt like she compromised alot and after 8 months she went to NYC to meet him and his family for an engagement and they spring nikkah on her last minute. she felt very betrayed that is why she would like her family to get to know the guys family simultaneously, so that everyone is on the same page.&nbsp;<div>Match</div><div>1. 30-40 age range</div><div>2. pakistani</div><div>3. educated (financially independent) she would prefer doctor</div><div>4. kind appreciative of her compromise (i.e relocation)</div><div>5. someone who understands that he is the bread winner (she wants to raise family)</div><div>6. someone who is moderate in religion (practices but does not force her to wear hijab etc)</div><div><br></div><div>&nbsp;</div><div>&nbsp;&nbsp;<div><br></div></div>