I was born and raised in Malaysia, lived and worked most of my life there (minus my 4 undergraduate years in Northwestern Uni, Chicago, and some other years working in Sudan and Italy). I’m currently a Healthcare and Community Chaplain / Emotional-Spiritual Counselor, trained at Stanford Hospital. I also just completed a master’s degree in Islamic Studies and Interreligious Chaplaincy at the Graduate Theological Union, Berkeley and have other classical Islamic studies in Malaysia, Yemen and Indonesia.

Prior to this, I was in engineering and the corporate world for over a decade, while also volunteering for disaster relief, hospice, Islamic and interfaith non-profit organizations. After some mid-life considerations, family changes - death of my father, and my divorce (no kids), as well as deciding to pursue my passion, I decided to move to the US just over a year ago to pursue graduate education and professional training. Planning to stay around indefinitely and looking to deepen roots or connections.

I love being in nature and get much rejuvenation and sense of spirituality from being with nature and people. I especially come alive around water-related activities, be it walking by the beach/river, swimming, scuba diving, snorkeling  :)  When I get cranky, feed me with vitamin sky, sea, sun, streams or thunderstorms… and a long hug. I also enjoy camping/roadtrips, reading, and bringing together gatherings of friends and food. I miss sharing the food I cook (no thanks to Covid!)

I'm looking for a partner who when we come together, we embrace the 4Ps - find PEACE in each other, PLAY :) , PASSION for a life of meaning, purpose, and service to humanity... also PRAY together not only in solat, but in the larger sense of a spiritual connection living a life of Ibadah. 

About You:

Age range of 35 to 55: more importantly a youthful adventurous spirit, a lifelong humble learner attitude, and wisdom to embrace our imperfections on this journey of Life. Preferably someone I can meet in person – so bonus points if you live in the bay area.

Very important is someone who is emotionally balanced, has done and willing to commit to continued intellectual, emotional and spiritual self-development together. Preferably well-traveled, with open mind/heart, and exposed to different life experiences. Someone who understands and support my studies and profession as a Muslim & Interfaith chaplain, leader, and educator.