I felt my matchmaker never clearly understood what I was seeking. When I did offer feedback, she became defensive. Rather than suggesting to me a prospect who actually met my preferences, she told me to revisit someone I had already declined. I understand I am looking for something very specific; that's why I'm still looking. I'm not going to compromise what I want to find someone. Intelligence, education, and income are three different things, which she did not understand. Her emails to me sound as if I'm a gold digger when I am only looking for someone of equal education and income. If she was unable to meet my preferences from the current database, she should have just told me that.  I requested a change of matchmaker, but she rejected this request. One of the main reasons I chose Beyond Chai was because I am based in DC and am hoping to meet someone local. I would have preferred a matchmaker who was also DMV-based.