Hi there! Salaam!

This is awkward, but here goes...

I am here to find the "one," as I am sure some (not all!) of you are too.

This is me in a nutshell:

I often get called sincere, intelligent, kind, generous, sensitive, and sweet, and also passionate and stubborn about things that I believe in.  I am analytical and reflective by nature.  I love chivalry.  I like being organised, and having a purpose in life. 

I believe that communication is more about how we interact- including our gestures and expressions.  It is about paying attention to the other person and trying to understand what they are saying.

What am I looking for?

I am looking for someone that adds meaning and real value to my life.  Someone who values marriage and family.

Attraction.  Intelligence.  
And substance.  Not superficiality.

My preference is for someone whose extensive life experience (including their role as a parent) has shaped them into a wise, compassionate and generous human being with real goals. 

You must also be someone who has been raised in the West (like I was- too many cultural differences otherwise), and who values moral and religious principles over culture. 

Friendship.  Conversation.  Sincerity.  Trust. Loyalty.  Respect.  Love.  Care.  Attention.  Support.  Fairness. Honesty.  

I appreciate the the little things in life- such as gestures of love and kindness. Observing nature.  I am very observant.  

Islam comes first before culture. Always. Jokes come a close second.

I value a strong intellect and good, thoughtful conversation.  I am a lifelong learner, curious and very observant.

I will be okay with relocating for the right person.  I would also love to travel endlessly to explore the beauty Allah has created in this world.

I do have four children, I take responsibility for them but allow them to freely roam between myself and their dad (where their schooling and schedule allows).  So please take note.  If this scares you, please do not waste our time.  My kids are an important part of my life, and I expect the same for anyone else in the same position.  No one gets married with the expectation of divorce.  All parties should have the capability to navigate through these complex arrangements in a respectful and mature way.