I cherish and enjoy time with family(yours, mine, ours), female friends, and in nature. It feels great to workout, eat zabiha, and dress well for taking care of amanah and Allah's blessings. Not career-oriented... enjoying family life & embracing the role that it comes with. Lately I've been playing with the ?  at one of my son's part-time gig. ? His younger brothers thank him everytime for wanting to muck horse stalls so we get to play. 

In Allah's plan for me, I have been unmarried while my sons (and I) were really young (divorced at 23) and inshAllah raising the amanah Allah swt gave me so far with awareness of deen/character and independent appropriate to their age. MashAllah my oldest is in college, one juggles eggs and wants to follow the footsteps of al-Gazali iA, and all are expert archers & handy with powertools... so I may have done something right?... with Allah's Mercy and duas of so many people who care. Alhumdulilah my sons keep me laughing, carefree, and free-spirited in a way boys do and anything and everything is worth bargaining and bantering for them.?
They understand and support my intention to get married inshAllah.