It seemed the matches weren't really looking to find a true partner as they were unwilling to even engage in a basic introductory conversation. Feedback from the matchmaker indicated to me that they were making a lot of assumptions about my background (immigration status) and it seemed as if they weren't looking for a true marriage but rather someone to provide for them financially. I wished they had been more courageous as "on paper" many potential matches had been good. Perhaps the women should have been the initial deciders regarding their interest rather than myself as it became very discouraging.