http:\/\/www.muslimmarriageadvice.com\/dealing-with-differences-in-your-marriage\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\nA few pointers on how to deal with Differences in your Marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Talk about them!<\/strong>
We\u2019re not suggesting you discuss politics or fiqhi views the first time you talk to a prospective spouse, but once you are married, discussing the bigger issues is a MUST. Once the differences are out in the open, come to an amicable compromise for both partners to ensure that they don\u2019t become an issue in the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\nIgnore outside influences and this includes parents!<\/strong>
Ultimately, where your relationship is headed is between you and your partner. While trying to resolve any major differences that may be causing friction between the two of you, try to ignore all outsiders including friends and family. They will obviously be biased, and also might be less likely to work out the differences than you.<\/p>\n\n\n\nTry and understand your partner\u2019s position<\/strong>
Remember that the sanctity of your relationship is more important than the color of your child\u2019s room. If the difference is major, then merely tolerating the other\u2019s views isn\u2019t enough. You don\u2019t have to agree with them, but having a conversation expressing both your views to comprehend where each is coming from is recommended. This way, you\u2019ll understand their view better and can respect their opinions.<\/p>\n\n\n\nSet a few ground rules<\/strong>
To keep things harmonious (like Muslim Harmony), set out a few rules when it comes to dealing with big differences in your relationship. For example, agree to not talk fiqhi issues at the dinner table or in social settings if you\u2019re both the type who get worked up over the subject.<\/p>\n\n\n\nThe difference can make your relationship stronger<\/strong>
It\u2019s usually the big obstacles that, when worked through together, can solidify and strengthen a relationship. Besides, middle-grounds can sometimes be found; for example, many successful inter-racial marriages have happened in our community. Who says you and your partner can\u2019t agree to disagree on smaller matters?<\/p>\n\n\n\nWe should remember that some differences can break a marriage. So be proactive with them, and deal with them before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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