By Wendy Rose Gould, June 29, 2020<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Source: https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/starting-a-new-relationship-in-the-time-of-coronavirus-4801824<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Starting a new relationship from scratch or maintaining a budding relationship is a tricky endeavor in and of itself. Throw in the added hurdle of dealing with the daily throes of a global medical emergency\u2014and the inability to physically be <\/em>with that other person\u2014and things become increasingly complicated. This doesn\u2019t mean all dating should cease, though.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Though dating has certainly waned given the coronavirus pandemic, it makes sense that some do wish to continue the courting process. Some may argue that dating right now could even be advantageous for a couple of different reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I think anything that creates normalcy in our routines we should continue [to do], provided we take the recommended precautions. Though social interactions will have to be virtual right now, the ability to video chat [and text] means you can still get to know someone and sense their energy.<\/p>BIANCA L. RODRIGUEZ, EDM, LMFT<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n She adds that when we’re in a state of crisis, like this coronavirus pandemic, there’s increased worry about the unknown which exacerbates stress and anxiety. In that sense, sticking with regular routines creates a sense of predictability which can potentially ease our stress. Further, the lack of human connection can increase feelings of isolation and depression, so it’s important that we continue to invest time in socializing, too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Rachel DeAlto, the chief dating expert for Match, agrees that right now is a good time to date and really<\/em> get to know people. She says you can even consider it a vetting process of sorts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cAdditionally, this can be a great time to meet people who are also interested in more than a hookup. It slows down the physical component of new relationships and builds emotional intimacy.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n If starting a new relationship\u2014or maintaining a budding relationship\u2014feels like the right move for you, the following advice can help things go more smoothly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You may wonder if talking about the pandemic in the context of dating makes sense. To answer your question, it absolutely does.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Everyone\u2019s life is completely altered by this worldwide crisis. I would make sure [the topic] doesn’t dominate the conversation, but how your date responds to COVID-19 can tell you a lot about him or her. <\/p>BIANCA L. RODRIGUEZ, EDM, LMFT<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt provides an excellent opportunity to learn how your date handles a crisis, and since crises are inevitable, you get to see what the future holds if you want to build a life with this person.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n This advice applies in and outside of a pandemic, but we’re reiterating it since it may be easier to lose sight of what we\u2019re seeking in a long-term partner during this chaos. If you haven\u2019t already, define three to five non-negotiables you\u2019re seeking in a partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Knowing what you are looking for helps you recognize it faster. Also while we may have more free time at the moment, it doesn\u2019t mean you should be virtually dating everyone that comes your way. This will all end at some point, and you want to be ready to start in-real-life dating someone with potential.<\/p>RACHEL DEALTO<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n Just as you would do your best to get to know someone at the start of a relationship any other time, the focus now should be the same. Be genuinely curious about getting to know the soul and mind of the person you\u2019ve just met to feel out your connection. The New York Times\u2019 36 Questions to Fall in Love might also be a great jumping-off point for deeper conversations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n One of the greatest milestones of dating someone you met online is taking your connection from text message to face. Obviously, in light of the coronavirus pandemic, actually going on a physical date isn\u2019t feasible. The next best thing is to talk to each other via FaceTime, Skype, Zoom, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you\u2019re feeling a strong connection with someone, move your conversations off text as soon as possible. Doing so makes a world of difference in your ability to really connect. If your relationship progresses, you could even get creative and set up a virtual candlelit date night or watch a movie together via Netflix Party, or a similar service.<\/p>\n\n\n\n One of the beautiful things about being in a committed partnership is having the ability to laugh, lament, and vent together. During this particularly trying time, though, defaulting to negative discussions may come too<\/em> easy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIf you need a venting session that is understandable, but doesn\u2019t use your new match as a sounding board,\u201d says DeAlto. \u201cPeople are still drawn to positive people, and you wouldn\u2019t want a great potential date to be put off by negativity. If you aren\u2019t feeling up to it, push the conversations off.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n You and your potential partner are likely experiencing waves of emotions as you try to process and work through the coronavirus pandemic. Anxiety levels might be high, frustrations may come more quickly, and disconnects can understandably happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dating someone new at this time will likely require an increase in patience, heightened self-awareness, and ultra-strong communication skills. It also requires an authentic desire to get to know someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cBalance is a personal boundary we each need to define individually,\u201d says Rodriguez. \u201cSpending time dating should feel like it adds value to your life. If it doesn’t, then I’d look at the amount of energy you’re giving to it and make some changes.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you feel emotionally and mentally equipped to go through the stages of beginning a new relationship, then experts agree that you should. However, do give yourself permission to step away from the dating game if that\u2019s what you need in this moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" By Wendy Rose Gould, June 29, 2020 Source: https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/starting-a-new-relationship-in-the-time-of-coronavirus-4801824 Key Takeaways Following government and state orders to isolate is of utmost importance as we try to flatten the coronavirus infection curve. 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Finding Success While Dating in the Time of Coronavirus<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Don\u2019t Ignore the Elephant in the Room<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Identify What You\u2019re Seeking in a Partner<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Focus on Getting to Know Each Other<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Make Sure to Video Chat<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Stay Positive as Best as You Can<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Some Considerations to Keep in Mind<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
What This Means For You<\/h3>\n\n\n\n