{"id":1711,"date":"2016-08-24T10:28:08","date_gmt":"2016-08-24T10:28:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beyondchai.com\/blog\/?p=1711"},"modified":"2016-08-24T10:28:08","modified_gmt":"2016-08-24T10:28:08","slug":"10-super-cool-tips-to-keep-your-husband-happy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beyondchai.com\/blog\/2016\/08\/24\/10-super-cool-tips-to-keep-your-husband-happy\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Super cool tips to keep your husband happy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most of life is habitual. You do the same things you did yesterday, the day before and every day for the last month. Habits, good or bad, make you who you are. The key is controlling them. If you know how to change your habits, then even a small effort can create big changes in your relationships. It is not the big things that end up changing our life, but the little things. Most people believe they have to make huge changes and take massive action, but it often isn\u2019t necessary. The little displays of interest and affection can be more important than all the \u201cactive listening\u201d. Here are 10 keys to keeping your husband content, satisfied, and happy with you.<\/p>\n<p>1. Without quality time, your relationship will not survive. Carve out at least half an hour a night, and at least one day a month when you the two of you spend time exclusively together.<br \/>\n2. You will both need security, comfort. A good relationship is built on compromise and a great deal of give and take on both sides.<br \/>\n3. Keep your dependence and independence in balance. Tell and show your husband how much you need him, but don\u2019t cling, as that can make him feel trapped.<br \/>\n4. Encourage him to listen to you, by showing appreciation when he does. By the same token, show interest when he talks to you. Be aware that most men aren\u2019t mentally programmed for conversation in the way women are. They need more silence and internal time.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"float: left;\"><span style=\"float:left; padding-right: 15px; padding-bottom: 7px; padding-top: 8px;\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script>\r\n<!-- BC300-250 -->\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:inline-block;width:300px;height:250px\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9441334350567224\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"3883394805\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>5. Make him appreciate you. Don\u2019t wait for a spontaneous compliment, but say something good about yourself and ask for his agreement.<br \/>\n6. Learn to do the one thing that is most likely to restore good feeling in your relationship \u2013 giving your husband a genuine, loving and approving smile.<br \/>\n7. Often those subtle quirks that first attracted you to your husband can, with time, turn around and become toe-curling annoying habits. Learn to love him with all his annoying habits.<br \/>\n8. Hidden resentments poison a relationship; so if something bothers you, say it. Remember that while men are wary of emotional conversations, they love to find solutions. Express your problem and then ask him to help you find the answer.<br \/>\n9. Learn that punishing your husband won\u2019t work. It may make you feel better to give him a hard time, but it will actually make him dig his heels in more. A better tactic is to reward the things you like and ignore what you don\u2019t like.<br \/>\n10. Instead of protecting the ego, protect your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Never forget to ask Allah ta\u2019ala for the blessing of having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on \u2013 by the Mercy of Allah ta\u2019ala \u2013 into Jannah.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most of life is habitual. You do the same things you did yesterday, the day before and every day for the last month. Habits, good or bad, make you who you are. The key is controlling them. 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